Pawan Kumar Jha Writer

“You don’t like yogurt at night? Me, neither!” “You don’t like getting up early in the morning? Me, too!” “What, you loved that book which I lent you yesterday?” “God! I loved that, too!”   And, then either of you says, “Wow! What a lovely surprise that both of us have mutual likes and dislikes on many things! Both of us hate yogurt at night and both of us loved the book.” Well, I don’t know really if you have been to this kind of experience before, but if you ever have been to such an experience, and you couldn't appreciate the encounter much, you perhaps blew your soulmate! One of the most trustworthy gut-feelings when it comes to understanding if someone gotta be your soulmate or not is to understand the intangible cue of mutual accordance or heart intimacy that both of you unwittingly share with each other.  To state otherwise, when both of you sit together, start chatting over random subjects and feel wondered that how come most of your likes a...

I believe love at first sight or love at several sights often leads the love-birds to the beatific serendipity of a new-born relationship, an intangible ecstasy full of dreams and affection. Such a relationship is not devoid of love, and most of us tend to define it as eternal, soulful or even godlike.  But falling in love at first sight is not the correct yardstick to measure the immensity of love in it. Because, it is not the love, it is the life in it that counts - :) It is not the love, it is the life in it that defines soulmate. More often than not, people, who fell in love at first sight or went through the encounter of several meetings at a park, a hotel, a pub, a restaurant or any private rendezvous, never succeeded keeping the love alive till grave.  Why?  Because that’s not the true love, it was something, you say, crush or something ‘Easy Peasy Lemon Squezy’ attraction.  So, what makes a love a true love after all? What makes it timeless...